Thursday, August 14, 2014

That thing called Patriotism




I am sitting in my office feeling super kicked about the fact that it’s a long weekend. It’s a feeling we all share and next year my father will feel it too as he retires this year and so this one is special!

Ever since my birth I have seen him get ready early in the morning on 15th August, wear a crisp uniform, try to see if all that brass shines and that shoe shows his face because of the sparkle. All this to pull that string at a government school and hoist that tricolor while the kids wait for a laddoo or a samosa or sometimes both.  I too was once part of those kids. We were so excited to sing and hear these officers/ soldiers talk about India and feel so proud that we were Indian. More so because that was one day we were made to eat laddoos and go back home for the rest of the day. What a feeling.

Is that feeling comparable to the feeling when I walked in today to a small plastic flag that was stuck on my desk? Maybe not. Are we more “Indian” today. Maybe not. Will I, as a civilian ever feel or make people feel how it really feels to be an Indian. Maybe not.

15th August 1947. Well that means a lot to me and my family and a whole lot of my friends who belong to the forces. We are a family of Air Force and Army brave hearts, who have believed that they were made to serve the country.

To my family it’s not a day of holiday. It’s a day of remembering how it is cool to be in the forces. Being part of the forces - Yes it’s about a lot of parties and endless drinking and yes we love Old Monk and we enjoy a good Tandoori Chicken and oh yes we have seen our parent party long before we knew the meaning of party. But we have also seen our mothers pray to God every time our Fathers went out on a tour or seen that pride in our mom’s eyes every time our dads put on that uniform. We have heard stories of independence from our grandmothers and a whole lot of repeated war stories from my grandfather and I know for sure that my kids will hear more from their grandfather.


Today when I saw this (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zs0cfIic0t0&feature=share), I had to share and put it up on my blog. This Independence Day, I only hope we fall more and more in love with our country. 

So in love that we do not hear a single complain against it, so in love that no one dares to harm it – not even the politicians, so in love that we learn to respect our women and men, so in love that our kids grow up proud of the country that they live in, so in love that we do not compare ourselves to any other country and feel sad, so in love that if it’s taken away from us we will be heartbroken and shattered.  Because it’s just so easy to love India. Try it.