Tuesday, January 29, 2008

With a pinch of salt and lemon….


Most of life’s problems are solved at the bar next door!!!

Had a bad day with the client…lets go out for a drink with the team and cut the client apart.

Had an awesome presentation….oh wow lets celebrate the win!!

Had a bad fight with your spouse…go to a friend’s place and yeah my child, pick up beer on your way!

Got your MBA degree from a top notch Business school….celebrate with a Champaign!

Daddy dear is worried about his child’s growing age and changing lifestyle….lets discuss it over a drink!

Boss wants to sack you….lets discuss an issue over a drink!!!

It’s funny, but true. The psychology behind all the above gesture is very simple. A person behaves the best when they are drunk. Their stammering senses don’t allow them pretend and this pulls them out of the mask they usually have.

People who don’t drink …continue to live under the pretence and are never able to leave it. So I would suggest a shot a day once in a while won’t be an offence!!!

Cheers!!

Friday, January 25, 2008

Why does good news come in whispers….!!!

Well, have been part of a very patriotic family. And on the eve of our Republic Day, I finally feel like I belong to the nation. Well this particular piece is solely dedicated to my dad.

The day began with its usual monotony. There was something about the air though. I got to office and started the Friday morning with a bang. Felt like finishing off work, as it kept coming my way. I got into a meeting and then a discussion. It suddenly felt like a Monday morning. I felt like people just suddenly came to know about my existence.

Suddenly my mobile rang and I felt really irritated as I was too occupied to answer calls. But then I realised it was my dad. I am not used to getting calls from my dad. Am not used to getting calls at that hour from my family either. So many thoughts kept running into my mind and most of them were negative. I sceptically took the call and meekly said a hello. My dad sounded stern as ever but there was a sense of excitement in his voice. A sense of enthusiasm, a sense of content as well. He asked me “do you want to hear good news?” and my obvious answer to it was yes. Well to kill the not so building suspense for you guys, he had been given the vishisht sewa medal. I was elated but at the same time suddenly everything seemed to make sense. Everything looked worthwhile. I felt so proud of dad. Suddenly all those parent’s teacher’s meets without dad made sense. Suddenly my summer vacations without my dad disappeared. The sense of regret, complain and all those things I would otherwise have rattled out had just been erased. It made me proud to feel that dad was there for not just me but also for those millions of people who were part of the country.

My dad has been a hero figure for me all my life. He has set examples that I would love to follow. If today the country has recognised him, I feel good. I feel good to see a tear in his eye (which he tried very hard to hide!) for himself. It is a tear that shows the happiness when one has achieved the worth of one’s life. Suddenly my corporate life seems pointless. Money or no money, my dad has achieved a height I am proud of.

And time and again a question creeps into my soul…will I ever be like him? A promise I make today is that they way a child celebrates her father’s success, a child tomorrow should celebrate mine. I share my dad’s life today. Its been always for the country and probably will always be. I compete with the country for my dad’s attention. Alas! I always loose!

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Six months………!!!

Well firstly let me tell you, the article is not about my personal life. And now let me also tell you that half the fun of reading this article hasn’t been lost with that first statement!

It was a sunny April morning when I first stepped into the world of advertising with some dreams and some expectations. My first day at work was different form what I had expected it to be. What attracted me the most was the kind of music that played along in the office, the attitude that people had, the colour of the walls- red. It’s very unusual to what I had imagined it to be. A place I could relax, I could watch a movie, people here were crazy about these sitcoms, oh god it felt like I never left college.

Okay, before you form an opinion about my work culture….we do a lot of work. First impressions don’t really tell you a story; they are like a prelude to the poems. Slowly and steadily I was introduced to the work culture. I was put on a team that was handling some really active brands. These brands never slept. I knew I would never be able to do any of the fun things that I could see around. Anyway as the first week went by I realised that it wasn’t as interesting as it seemed. There was a lot of work that was thrown in my kitty. Nothing that an advertising course had taught me, made sense. As a trainee in the client servicing department we had to first listen to the rage of the clients, then try and get a good creative survive the burnt of the anal clients, and finally wait for artworks in thee studio. Basically get beaten up from the creatives for bombing their ideas, hear the client crib about endlessly on his logo size (as if it was something else that was small and was hampering their personal life!) and then finally the studio. It was strange to be in this business.

In these few months of my survival here I have learnt a lot of things. Firstly I am here because I can communicate better. I am here to understand people. I am here because people can communicate through me. I might be glorifying my mundane job but at the end of the day I feel great to see a bus shelter of my brand, I feel a tingle in my stomach when I see my TVC ( no matter how ridiculous it seemed) and finally I know that because of me a lot of people didn’t end up arguing about something. My client is happy and my creative is happy that its finally over. Wait a minute…what I feel…well its all quite pointless. The brand has to do well at the end of it all…!!!

P.S: while I am writing this I have already been called 4 times…so am leaving the rest of the story to be told when my client goes to sleep again!

Monday, May 7, 2007

Strangers in the night… (Of the world)!

Lost in the dark woods of life,
Am wandering into the unknown path,
The lesser travelled road I took,
And found myself all alone there.

You came my way on a sunny afternoon,
Like a breath of fresh air,
Leading me into a world of strangers,
Guiding me, towards a goal.

Holding out a hand was easy for me,
Unleashing my creativity was natural!

We still have not met,
We may never meet,
The journey so far has been exciting,
My life has a guided force,
Life suddenly seems meaningful.
But I don’t promise that it will last.
After all life is dark,
And we all have loneliness around us,
We all will live in solitaire
And at the end we will fear crowd!